1. nowadays, many people are glued to the phone all the time, binge-watching, browsing douyin/tiktok, bilibili and wechat. some young people often stay up late and wake up at noon the next day. what suggestions will you give to those having the unhealthy lifestyle?generally speaking, we should know?a lot?of?dangers about staring at our phones?and staying up late for long periods of time, such as?poor skin, memory loss, immune system decline?and so on.
so we need to change and get rid of some unhealthy lifestyles, it?is not very difficult, just need to pay a little attention to some small things. i would like to talk about some easy suggestions.
1. take a break. when you work, study or play computer games, you should take a break every hour to?relax your minds?and bodies.
2. keep steady sleeping time. when you?maintain a steady and enough?sleeping time, your body can function steadily, so that you can keep yourself in good physical condition to study and play.
3. reduce the time for low-level entertainment.?developing an exercise routine is much more valuable, dont?waste much time.
4. take a look at the real world. the people and things around you are beautiful. interacting with virtual world or distant people is not as fun as playing with friends around you.
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2. talk about your understanding of the gap between fantasy and reality based on thomas wolfe’s short story “the far and the near”.thomas wolfe represents reality.and it give me some personal understanding of the gap between reality and fantasy.
in general, we all think fantasy is better than reality. for example, the descriptions of the train drivers meeting with two women?reveal that they live in reality but dislike the real world. besides people need spiritual sustenance. beautiful fantasy can support people who are suffering from the reality.
but remember, we live in reality, not in fantasy. although many things may be unsatisfactory, we need to have the strength to face them, so as to make changes instead of indulging in fantasies all the time.
finally, i want to say busy half a life, may you return to still be a teenager, have a beautiful fantasy, but also have the courage to face reality.
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3. mental health is deteriorating among young people globally, and the incidence of anxiety and depression is increasing in recent years. what can underlie such a prevalent mental illness?nowadays, mental health issues are given particular attention, both at home and abroad. some data show that 20% of adolescents have varying degrees of psychological problems.?so why are mental health problems more prevalent after better living conditions?
based on the information found, the following are some possible reasons.
1 family factors. such as, parents bad relationship, poor family atmosphere.
2 study or work stress. being under high stress for a long time and not adjusting in time can produce symptoms like?anxiety and depression, which can lead to serious psychological problems.
3 encounter huge changes. for example: loss of job, major illness, investment loss. the sudden occurrence of a major disaster may bring a lot of psychological pressure on the individual.
4 the influence of the internet. nowadays, the media industry is getting hotter and hotter, and there are numerous phenomena such as random comments and insults to others on the internet, which can also have an impact on personal mental health.
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4. some people hold that the purpose of education is to prepare individuals to be useful to society; others think that it is to help people achieve personal ambitions. what do you think is the purpose of education?what is education for? maybe when we wer

e children we would often hear people around us say, behind this statement is a certain understanding of the educational purpose, which?should be to train workers, may further rise to train individuals to become useful to society or to realize their personal ambitions. i believe that the purpose of education includes the above, and more important, with the development of society and human, education should be in line with the laws of individual growth and produce various types of people.?because we?are very curious and eager to understand the world and explore it, therefore, education should conform to this law.in addition, society is evolving rapidly, and to adapt to it, education needs to develop the ability to learn and adapt.we often say that all roads lead to rome, and that education should not be about cultivating a single person with a single model, but about cultivating diverse people.
?5. do you frequently get close to the nature and enjoy its beauty? please share one of your personal experience and feelings of enjoying the nature.i really like to get close to the nature and enjoy its beauty, when i am in the nature, my heart?will?get calm and i will feel comfortable.
this is my fifth year in wuhan. when i first came here, i was a little overwhelmed by its noise and prosperity, because i prefer to be quiet and alone.?so when i am in it, my favorite place to go is the east lake scenic area, where the trees are lush and the flowers are beautiful. after the founding of the country, chairman mao visited it?48 times, and received 94 groups of foreigners?there, and the east lake has always been praised by writers from ancient times to the present. i like to take a walk on the east lake greenway after i have a restless mind or busy time, and the greenery in my eyes makes me feel comfortable. strolling through it, leaving behind all kinds of anxiety and stress, enjoying this quiet time. if the timing is right, i can always see a few couples taking wedding photos under the sunset. in the hustle and bustle of the world, this view can cleanse my heart.
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6. what is doctors’ dilemma? is it ethical for doctors to tell a lie in order to shelter patients from brutal news? why or why not??what is the doctor families ask doctors to hide?conditions?to avoid the patients?suffering shocks. it is also true in reality.?such cases are ethically supported by the majority of people. however, the civil code states that patients have the right to know and hospitals or doctors are not allowed to hide patients’?conditions.
it is difficult to judge how to balance ethics and the law, on the one hand, doctors have to conform to?the law, on the other hand, they have to take care of the emotions of patients and their families. in some cases, if it is not possible or easy to explain to the patient, it should be explained to the patients close relatives and get their specific?agreement?before hiding the conditions, which is allowed by the law.
as for which patients should be hid, this still depends mainly on the familys understanding of the patients, the doctor cannot judge, but can only cooperate.
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7. what is your views on cosmetic surgery? what are the positive and negative influence that cosmetic surgery has on our society?my opinion on cosmetic surgery is that it has its pros and cons, the key is how it is used.
on the one hand, cosmetic surgery is beneficial to some people, such as those with inborn?defects and accidental burns. it is possible to recover from cosmetic surgery so that?they may live better. in addition, the development of cosmetic surgery has also led to the development of social economy and provided more working opportunities. moreover, when our appearance becomes better, it can also enhance self-confidence to a certain extent.
on the other hand, cosmetic surgery can also bring some drawbacks to society, such as illegal cosmetic clinics infringing on consumers for profit; besides, there are dangers in performing cosmetic surgery because it is fighting against your natural organism; and it also tends to breed a climbing mentality, resulting in the loss of more natural?beauty. a very interesting phenomenon is that we may feel that compared to the current stars, the previous stars are more impressive.
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8. do you accept pearl buck’s saying: “ if you want to understand today, you have to search yesterday.”? what is your understanding of the saying?in our daily life, we often look back on what has happened and gain experience in dealing with it; in learning knowledge, we often?review it in order to strengthen?it and be able to use it skillfully.
the saying of pearl buck is to contribute to the harmony of china-us relations.
all in all, yesterday serves as a guide to show us the way forward and?to clarify what we should do today.?this is my understanding about this saying.
?9. what is body language? do you think body language is important in intercultural communication? please explain the reasons with specific examples.i have found that body language refers to use non-verbal body symbols?to communication, including our eyes, facial expressions, body movements,?and?so on.?in addition to language expressions, body language?is another important way of communication.
with the advancement of globalization, there are more and more intercultural communication.
non-verbal communication runs through the whole communication process. if we do not handle it?well, there may be misunderstandings.
for example, in china, people nod their heads to mean?. in latin american countries, women/man?will touch, kiss and hug each other warmly when they meet, while people from other countries may only nod or shake hands when they meet for the first time. therefore, when we communicate with people from different countries, we should know some body language that the other person may use in advance, so that the communication process may be more successful.
补白：第9个可以深化讲一下，意义深度我写的不太够。倒运孩子考试时刚好抽到这个。?

10. one of the biggest social issues in china is the increasingly low marriage rate and low birth rate among young people, which led to an aging and shrinking population. china will inevitably face the burden of caring for large elderly population without a large resource of young workers. what is your views on the?social issue?some data?show that the countrys labor force remains rich.however, due to the huge population base, the elderly population is equally huge.when the aging problem becomes more serious, it will bring some?political and economic problems.
in my opinion, we should find ways to relieve?this problem. first of all, the establishment and improvement of social security system needs long-term planning, long-term resource investment. the older peoples trust in the country. in addition, giving young people more employment opportunities. when young people become less stressed, they may be more willing and able to take care of their families.
the main subject of a country is people, and if you want to solve social problems, you have to effectively solve the problems that people are worried about.